Vaginal dryness, burning or irritation, discomfort during sex, and needing to pee more often or more urgently can all be part of the genitourinary syndrome of menopause, or GSM. Lower estrogen levels affect the tissues of the vagina, vulva and bladder.
It is common. The Menopause Society estimates that GSM affects roughly 27% to 84% of postmenopausal women. It is also likely underdiagnosed and undertreated, partly because people don’t bring it up, yet in most cases the symptoms can be managed effectively.
Unlike hot flashes, which often ease over time, these symptoms can continue, or start, years after menopause.
Quick answers
What treatments are there?
According to The Menopause Society, options include vaginal lubricants and moisturizers, low-dose vaginal estrogen or DHEA, systemic hormone therapy and ospemifene, a tablet that is not a hormone but acts on estrogen receptors (a selective estrogen receptor modulator, or SERM). Which fits depends on how severe the symptoms are and on your health history, and availability differs by country.
What is the difference between a lubricant and a moisturizer?
A lubricant is used during sex to reduce friction. A vaginal moisturizer is used regularly, a few times a week, to help with everyday dryness.
Is it worth mentioning, even if it feels awkward?
Yes. Clinicians hear about it often, and because GSM is usually treatable, raising it can make a real difference to comfort and to your sex life.
When to talk to a clinician
- Dryness, pain or burning affect your daily life or sex.
- You need to pee urgently or often, or keep getting urinary infections.
- You have any bleeding after menopause.
- You notice a lump, sores or skin changes on the vulva.
How logging helps
Writing down when symptoms happen and how much they bother you can make an awkward subject easier to raise: you can simply show your notes. Whatever you track in Pausa stays on your iPhone and in its own backup, never on a Pausa server.
- The Menopause Society – 2020 Genitourinary Syndrome of Menopause Position Statement
- The Menopause Society – 2022 Hormone Therapy Position Statement
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